心靈瑜珈親子教室_孩子怕英文_Bhakti Yoga Parent Child Teaching Lab_My Child dislikes English

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心靈瑜珈親子教室_孩子怕英文_Bhakti Yoga Parent Child Teaching Lab_My Child dislikes English

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你好,我是親子關係治療師潘姑娘,今日要與大家分享為什麼孩子怕英文。有家長向我透露她的8歲孩子中文成績非常卓越,但是偏偏不喜歡英文,所以英文成績經常表現不穩定。其實要留意的是孩子不喜歡的背後可能是害怕接觸英文,作為家長就要立即覺察到。於是我們會問孩子為什麼會不喜歡或是害怕英文。這個可以是先天原因,直覺不喜歡,沒有任何現實原因;其次是她在接觸英文的初期可能未能與英文建立親和感或正面體驗或感受;再者可能是曾有接觸英文時的負面經驗或感受,如同學取笑她說的英文很難聽等等,所以便是不喜歡或者抗拒多接觸英文。作為家長,首先我們要

 1. 明白及接受孩子不喜歡英文或者抗拒多接觸英文的感覺

2. 其次就是要了解她為何不喜歡或者抗拒或是害怕的原因

3  之後我們需要協助孩子去建立與英文的親和感,配合相關資源去增加孩子接觸英文語言的機會

4. 當孩子嘗試做到了的時候,家長給予適當的回饋或正面的鼓勵

5. 如果家長可以在日常生活中向孩子多說英語或以英文溝通…,亦會增加孩子接觸英文語言的機會及讓孩子知道家長喜歡他們多說英語

6. 當然最理想的方法是尋求專業協助,親子關係治療師會以教育心理學的角度去探索孩子怕英文的原因,先處理其抗拒感,然後再透過遊戲或活動教學的方式去幫助學前或學齡期的孩子提昇對英語的親和感,那樣孩子便不會害怕英語,反之可能會愛上「她」,由此她便可以在英文世界開出一片窗。聯絡親子關係治療師潘姑娘2527 4000 / 9303 1671,快樂親子由你創,歡迎瀏覽 親子輔導/Parent-Child Counseling  http://www.bhaktiyogahk.com/parent-child/

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Hi, I am a Parent Child Relationship Therapist, Ida. Today I will share with you the topic of why our child is afraid of learning and speaking English subject. One parent shared with me that her 8-aged child’s chinese subject achievement is excellent, however she dislikes English subject. Hence the performance of English subject is always not stable. In fact, as a parent, we should pay attention when your child speaks to you that he or she dislikes something. It may reflect that he or she might be afraid of something. Then we will ask ourselves why our child dislikes or fear of learning or speaking English. The reason may be inborn factor. His or her intuition does not like English without any factual reason. Secondly, it can be explained that he or she cannot establish a sense of affinity or positive experience or feelings in the early stage of learning English subject. Thirdly, he or she has developed negative learning experience or feelings before. Such as his or her classmate has laughed at his or her speaking English is very difficult to listen…so he or she dislikes English. As a parent, firstly we need to

 1. Understand and accept the feeling that our child does not like or afraid of English

2. Secondly is to try to explore and understand the reasons of our child dislikes or resist of English

3. Thirdly we need to help our child establishing a sense of affinity toward learning of English and try to increase child’s access to English language opportunities with relevant support

4. When the child accepts the increase of learning English chances, the parent can give appropriate feedback or positive encouragement to him or her trials

5. If parents can speak more English or communicate in English with their child in daily lives, child will also increase their chances of contacting English language and gain relevant confirmation

6. The best way to tackle your child’s fear of learning and speaking English, contact Ms Ida Poon, a Parent Child Relationship Therapist 2527 4000 / 9303 1671. Professional will make use of educational psychological perspective to explore reasons of their dislikes or fear of English subject, dealing with their sense of dislikes or resistance and helping the pre-school or school-aged children to enhance the affinity of English subject through performing different games playing and active learning activities. The child maybe developed to enjoy English rather than fear of it and open the window of English world. Create your Happy Parent Child Relationship! Welcome to our website 親子輔導/Parent-Child Counseling  http://www.bhaktiyogahk.com/parent-child/

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