心靈瑜珈親子教室_孩子講大話_Bhakti Yoga Parent Child Teaching Lab_My Child tells lies
Ida Poon You Tube親子教學_A Parent Child Teaching Lesson of Ida Poon in You Tube Channel
你好，我是親子關係治療師潘姑娘，如果家長發現孩子經常出現有講大話的情況，通常出現於學齡初小階段及之後，表示親子之間出現了不能坦誠相對的親子關係，家長便要留神了，因為這個情況牽涉誠信vs欺騙的道德教育問題。孩子為什麼會說謊呢? 其實孩子是好心水清的，作為家長便要留意一下:
1. 是否包圍孩子四周的都是口不對心或心口不一的不誠實的環境/人物/事情…
2. 探究孩子說謊的緣由: a. 通常孩子是擔心說真話後可能有不愉快的後果如懲罰 b. 渴望得到父母的關愛 c. 對某些想法充滿期待 d. 妒忌他人 e. 愛面子
3. 家長可以做的事: a. 營造或給予誠實的環境/人物/事情給予孩子去經驗 b. 自身做好榜樣，讓孩子模仿你的誠實可靠的好品質 c. 當孩子說實話時，家長可以即時給予欣賞或鼓勵，可以是言語或物質的小獎勵 d) 最後家長可以循循善誘教導孩子，放下愛面子，學習「遵守規則」說實話，那樣便可以獲得父母的認同及稱讚 – 因果定律。要建立良好的親子關係，效果最佳的方法，當然是尋求專業指導，聯絡親子關係治療師潘姑娘2527 4000 / 9303 1671，學習高效親子技巧，快樂親子由你創，歡迎瀏覽 親子輔導/Parent-Child Counseling http://www.bhaktiyogahk.com/parent-child/
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Hi, I am a Parent Child Relationship Therapist, Ida. If the parents find the child often tell lies in front of you, usually occur in primary school age and after, then it arouses the attention that there is a non-honest parent child relationship existed between you and your child. It is a serious issue and involves moral education of honesty vs deception. Why our child will tell lies? In fact, the child owns simple heart, parents should pay attention to the following:
1. check any dishonest environment / people / things existed and surrounded by your child
2. Explore the reasons why the child is lying: a. child always worry that there may be unpleasant consequences if he or she speaks the truth, such as punishment b. eager to get the attention and love from the parents c. full of expectations to some ideas d. jealous to other e. face-saving
3. Parents can consider to implement following steps: a. create or give honest environment / people / things to your child to experience b. set your own honest example to your child and let him or her to imitate your honest and sincere good quality c. parents can immediately give appreciation or encouragement, can be verbal praises or material small reward when child tells the truth d. the last but not the least, parents can facilitate your child to let go his or her “Face” and learn “to follow rules” and speak the truth, then the child can parents ‘s recognition and praise – Cause-Effect Law. The best way to establish a good parent-child relationship is to seek professional guidance, contact Ms Ida Poon, a Parent Child Relationship Therapist 2527 4000 / 9303 1671 and learn effective parent-child skills. Create your Happy Parent Child Relationship! Welcome to our website 親子輔導/Parent-Child Counseling http://www.bhaktiyogahk.com/parent-child/
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